2 Truths & a Lie

The truth hurts...

 

Here's the sitch. There's this guy, a fraternity guy, whom I have never had or will ever have any attraction towards. This man is not a good guy & only contributes to my "don't date frat guys" philosophy... BUT he was a friend and I had his back... until Thursday. Said frat guy currently has a girlfriend who he has not just cheated on but has publically humiliated, it's a bad deal all around. I was friends with this girl I thought but she had always been kinda sketched out that I could be friends with her boyfriend and absolutely nothing else. Anyways, she talks all this crap about me & I defend myself saying "yooooo I'm not the girl you should be worried about considering he was just making out with someone on the way to the party & it wasn't me". This turns into some huge ordeal and all of a sudden I'm a huge liar that wants to ruin frat boys life because mine supposedly is super messed up. Alllrrriiiiggghhhttttttt. What is one to do? I didn't say what I saw to get anyone in trouble, I told her to get her off my back! Frat boy & makeout girl both deny it & go back to their significant others like it's no big deal, meanwhile single me looks crazy. To end this story I leave you with a huge, WTF?!

PS: As I'm sitting at work typing this out I am realizing how silly it is that I even care. I mean I'm successful, single, & on top of my stuff. Why would I, or anyone in my situation, even care about the gossip/drama in Greek Park? Don't let the crap get you down... what seems important now won't always seem that way. & for future reference: if a frat guy ever has the audacity to tell you that you better get out of his face or he'll make you cry, feel free to punch him in the throat.

Til next time y'all <3

 

Somewhere Between Frat Guys & Businessmen

A few days ago I came to the realization that I, the goofy, childlike person I am, was too old to even think about thinking about freshman boys. But then I realized that there comes a time in a girl's life when she finds herself a little more attracted to guys with facial hair versus the baby faces she once liked to touch with her hands and the stubble that once irritated her mouth after a little makeout sesh becomes a lot more tolerable. The dad bods though... I'm not sure if I'm ready to stray away from the perfectly chiseled Abercrombie models just yet, but to some girls that beer belly is just what the doctor ordered. What does this mean for me? Has my pool of fish been narrowed down to the guys I already know? If that's the case then LORD HELP ME (just kidding, I love you guys... kind of). Growing up is full of some confusing situations.

 
My current struggle: I'm too old for most college guys, but am I too young for the working class? 

 

REAL text from me to my bfri
*bestfriend

 

I have a work crush on a Mystery Man that happens to work in my building. Before you freak out, know that he doesn't work for my company so it doesn't break the "don't dip your pen in the company ink" rule! Mystery Man and I have chatted here and there and I can tell he's flirting but we're at work! How on earth do you let someone know you are interested or that it's okay for him to take me dinner or ask for a phone number since we have zero form of communication other than running into each other. I've seen MM (for short) on 5 different occasions since I began working at this place & each time *thanks to myself* has been equally filled with awkward giggles and pointless conversations like traffic & Styrofoam cups. I believe myself to be pretty mature but I have to ask... am I too young for him? And then if I'm too young for him, who am I the perfect age for? I can't have frat guys and businessmen... when do I have to pick a side?

 

 

 

Til next time y'all <3

 

 

Pilot: "Strictly Business... or not"

Getting back to the sorority house at 2am then waking up at 6am to go to work is a skill I did not necessarily want to master... but I did (98% of the time, oops). Balancing a full time internship that will hopefully lead to a salaried career, the maximum hours of college classes, & being a sorority girl is not what I envisioned my 21 year old life to look like but given the opportunity, I don't think I would change it. My life is full of highs and lows, tears and laughter, & feeling free yet restrained all at once. My purpose of creating this blog was to simply share my life experiences with you (plus I want to write a book someday & starting a blog gives me good framework haha). I am stuck in the middle of being a crazy college student that loves some liquid courage and dancing on the highest surface I can find #LiterallyAboveYou and an almost full-fledged adult that has to wake up at the butt crack of dawn every morning and actually support herself... I mean, I always thought being caught in the middle of different things was a bad place to be, but I kinda like the view & don't feel like getting un-caught? Once I started to E M B R A C E this life I am in, I fell madly in love with it. So here is my invitation to you, follow me on this journey of discovering what the F I'm doing with my life because I doubt you know what you're doing with yours. 

Til next time y'all <3